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drama, characters, jersey shore…with gifs!

Oh, I am going to admit a dirty little secret. Ready?

Freckles McYoungest and I have been watching old seasons of The Jersey Shore.


Man. I felt filthy just typing that.

It started when we were with Bottled Lightning, and she kind of sort of FORCED US to watch an episode or two. Holy Cannoli. The DRAMA. I couldn’t. Stand it.

We came home to the land of Antenna TV where I guess Freckles watched the rest of the episodes on Hulu or Netflix or something.

I must admit that now–I am fascinated. I honestly have never known people like this. Well, I might have run across them, but I didn’t stick around to see what made them tick.

Now, a couple of episodes into the Miami Season of The Jersey Shore, it’s easy to see who is a kid sowing wild oats:

and who is a frickin’ sociopath.

Favorite quote of the day:

“You stepped on the only toes you had in the house.”

The Situation to Angelina

If you haven’t seen this amazing slice of Americana, let me explain. Approximately half-a-dozen twenty-somethings hang out in a house for a couple of months near the beach and party. Oh yeah. Occasionally they go to a minimum-wage job. Mostly they get drunk and have Drama. (Please note the capital “D”.)


Thank you for asking.

Teens aren’t manufacturing their drama. There stuff really IS as big as they’re feeling it. First love. Choosing and getting into the right college. Losing your best friend. Standing up to peer pressure. Enlisting in the army. Deciding what to believe in, independent of your parents. Yeah. That’s big.

These guys on the Jersey Shore? They’re stirring up trouble, just so they can feel alive.

So there you have it, writers–the difference between flat characters and ones you can build a story on. You can’t put my characters’ day into a few gifs.



thanksgiving cookieing

I’m going to let Freckles McYoungest’s and my vlog say it all…quite literally. Oh, and the reason it’s called “short cookies” is the original vlog was too long to upload to YouTube.

You won’t find any big cookie-making secrets in this video. You may be mildly entertained.

Or not.

Here’s the recipe:

M & M Cookies

1 cup butter

1 cup brown sugar

1/2 cup sugar

2 teaspoons vanilla

2 eggs

2 1/4 cups flour

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 pound m & ms

Cream butter and sugars. Mix in vanilla and eggs. Sift together remaining dry ingredients and gradually add to butter mixture. Mix in m & ms. Drop by teaspoon on ungreased cookie sheet. Bake at 375 degrees for 8-10 minutes.

book banning backfire

When Freckles McYoungest was in eighth grade, her Catholic elementary school got a new principal. It was a shame, because the old principal had been there since before Freckles had been born. Mrs. Original Principal had ushered BoyWonder and Bottled Lightning from preschool through their Wonder Years, and we’d hoped she’d shake Freckles’ hand when she received her eighth grade diploma.


Because we soon found out that the new principal came from the only diocese IN THE NATION that refused to comply with the National Bishops’ guidelines on sex abuse. You know, about being transparent, educating kids and caretakers about safety, advocating for kids and not protecting the perpetrator, stuff like that.


That is a sign of CONSERVATISM in the extreme.

And so the weekly newsletters came home with inspirational stories about martyrs torn to pieces by wild beasts and how Caesar wore their intestines as a belt, and the virginal peasant girl who refused to let the duke kiss her hand so he flayed her alive for Jesus, or whatever. WITH XEROXED HOLY CARDS.

Yes, yes, but when are the high school entrance exams?

Then the day came when she went too far.

Our small but well-kept library, due to the efforts of our excellent, no-guff school librarian, had one copy of…

The Golden Compass.

Holy God.

It would have escaped the attention of Principal Throwback if The Parent hadn’t complained.


Well, hysteria on Principal Throwback’s part.

She sent home a three-page *special edition* newsletter on why she was removing the book from the library. But why stop there? She banned kids from bringing the book to school. She also urged us not to allow our children to read the book, or any book of Phillip Pullman’s, because he was an ATHEIST. And she attached reviews from Commonsense Media, and other documentation to prove his atheism.


As I read through the papers, hairs stood up on the back of my neck.

I asked Freckles’ if she’d heard about it–she hadn’t. I gave her the papers. I know. I’m sure I wasn’t supposed to do that. Phone calls were made. By Freckles. And other children whose mothers do things they’re not supposed to.

Enter a girl I will call Fleur. A genius kind of girl, a leader, with spiffy parents. She had read Golden Compass, and was not at all pleased with being told what she could and could not read. And that atheists were dangerous. Also, that the eighth graders were too weak-willed to use their own brains.

Oh yes, you would love to know this girl.

She organized.

The libraries and book stores–new and used, were cleaned out.

Because every eighth grader carried around a copy of The Golden Compass at that school. All day. For weeks. And none of the teachers stopped them.

How many read it? Probably not many.

But they could if they wanted to.

crossing the tracks–barb stuber’s launch party

Barbara Stuber’s book, Crossing the Tracks launched in June. So pretend I’m not two and a half months behind in my blogging and come along with me for a run-down.

She had a fabu party at the Faultless Starch Company Headquarters,

replete with food, her trailer playing on a big-screen TV

and snippets of her novel scattered about in calligraphied centerpieces.

Barb gave a gracious speech, full of inspiration and gratitude:

I brought Freckles of course, star of Barb’s bookmarks:

And we had the requisite nuts in attendance…Sheila Berenson, Ann Ingalls, Laura Manivong, Elizabeth Bunce, Sarah Clark, Judy Hyde…

…and a whole lot more people who my Flip didn’t get to. I was too busy having fun.

I am a lousy chronicler, but a really good book launch party-goer-toer.

Go buy this book, dammit. If you need convincing, come back Monday for a review.

wondering why i didn’t post last week?

Bottled Lightning is home.

Freckles McYoungest has finished her sophomore year.

I try desperately to stick to my writing schedule.

This is what happens.

So yeah.


let them go

Okay, all you parents who are easily offended, line up.  You are about to get schooled.

There seems to be two types of parents these days.  We’ve got the morons who pay absolutely no attention to their kids, figure their responsibility to their spawn ended the day they plopped them out.

I’m not talking to you.  Your kind has always been around, and should be euthanized immediately.

No, the kind I want to talk to have some hope of being salvaged, because most (certainly not all) have their children’s best interest at heart.  So open your ears, suckers–message coming in:


Holy Mother of Perpetual Motion, how do you think your kids are going to mature into independent adults if you don’t let them experience life on their own?  If you structure their days, make their decisions, keep them safe every moment and never let them take a risk, how do you expect them to grow up?

This year, I have:

Met a 16yr old boy who didn’t know how to pump gas.

Encountered innumerable 16yr old boys whose curfews were 11pm or even 10pm.  On a weekend?

Been inspected by scores of parents, who don’t trust their children’s judgment on whether our family maintains a safe environment.


Honest to Stinky Pete, when do you think your kid will learn to rely on himself?  College?  Because let me tell ya Stella, by then, it’s too late.

If you want your kid to make good choices when he/she goes to college, be a good judge of character, have street smarts, know how to think on his/her feet, be able to take care of him/herself–then your kid has to start doing it a lot sooner than the week before they leave for Wotsommata U.

We live in an area where the kids can walk to an ice cream store, dime store, toy store–and that’s just what we let our kids start doing with a friend at the age of 10.

When they were 12, they could go to a different movie in the cineplex than the parents went to.

14, we dropped them off and picked them up from the cineplex.

15, they could stay out at supervised friend’s homes until 11:30.  I trusted THEM to tell me if the parent was present, and if there was any nefarious activity going on.  That doesn’t mean I wasn’t talking to them, watching them, inspecting the house from the car when I picked them up.  PARENTS, JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T HEAR FROM ME, DOESN’T MEAN I’M NOT PAYING ATTENTION. I know what a drunk kid looks like, or a high one.  Come on.  I grew up in the ’70s.

16, they were driving.  Boy, did their world open up.  Bottled Lightning drove a carload of friends to Fort Scott for a ghost tour at Halloween.  And she drove them to Omaha for a day trip to the zoo.  Yes, I let her do this.  The friends’ parents let them go.  And today, they are all brilliant, self-sufficient college students, world travelers. Freckles McYoungest has laid out her proposals for road trips to me.  When they have come to fruition, I will let you know.

Heck, the first summer after his freshman year of college, Boywonder cranked up his 30yr old Honda Civic and tooted off to Gettysburg for the big Battle re-enactment.  His Missouri unit backed out at the last minute so he drove, literally 1,000 miles, without knowing a soul.  He met up with some North Carolinians and had a great time.  BECAUSE MY KIDS KNOW HOW TO MAKE THEIR WAY ON THEIR OWN.

So Helicopter Parents? Please. I’m beggin’ you.

Power down.

flippin’ out at the “little piano girl” book launch

My delicious friend Ann Ingalls launched her book, Little Piano Girl last Saturday at our local indie children’s bookstore, The Reading Reptile.

Co-written with her sister, Maryann Macdonald, Little Piano Girl (Houghton Mifflin) tells the story of Mary Lou Williams, a jazz piano genius who arranged music for Dizzy Gillespie, Duke Ellington and Charlie Parker.

I shot a little video that has AMATEUR written all over it.  Next time I’ll know to narrate more.  It’s fairly self-explanatory, but besides meeting Ann and Maryann, keep an eye out for:

Barbara Stuber, whose debut middle-grade novel, Crossing the Tracks will hit the stores this July.

Colleen Ryckert Cook, whose first non-fiction book in a three-book deal for Rosen Publishing comes out in August.

Katie Speck, author of the Maybelle early chapter books.  You know, the roach? *shiver*  Maybelle will visit someplace tremendously fun in a third book to be released next January. (Ooo!  Kidlit scoop!)

Elizabeth C. Bunce, author of  A Curse Dark As Gold and the first recipient of the William C. Morris Award from the ALA.  Yes, indeedy do.  Don’t worry gang, she has another book turned in which is in production, and she’s writing a third.

Pete Cowden, owner with his wife Deb of THE most incredible children’s bookstore in the nation–The Reading Reptile.

And now, without further ado, my very first vlog:

i know i said i was going to blog about something else but guess what happened–it’s far more exciting!

So we came downstairs this morning to discover that somebody came by to hang out.

On one of our carbon monoxide detectors.

In case you are unaware, Missouri is the Cave State.  Which means we are bat-a-trophic.  Our neighborhood and house are sneaking up on 100 years of age.  Bats are quite ingrained in the fabric of the area.

Anyway, how to deal with our guest?

A certain person who shall remain nameless first suggested a BB gun.

Um, no.

Then this certain person started to rig a net.  Freckles McYoungest got ready and left for school, Boywonder for work.  I took pictures.  And still the bat hung undisturbed.

And this certain person still worked on the net.


So I got some gloves.

Plucked the little darling off the wall.


I had to tickle it and rub its feet to wake it up.  Left it on the porch…

where it finally roused itself and flew away.


Oh, and Hairy Beast and Catler?

Uh, yeah.  They were busy.



The guy who invented this:


and this:


died last month.  Hans Beck, aged 79.

Bow your heads, moms and dads, for a man of brilliance.

Boywonder and Bottled Lightning own the above systems and a great many of their accoutrements.  Freckles McYoungest had an American Doll instead.  What a mistake.  I shudder to think of the fracas that is coming when it’s time to divide up the “good” toys.  Sweet Mary Malone in the Morning.  It’s gonna be a rumble.

If there’s one type of toy that every one of them loooooved it was Playmobil.  And each kid used the sets in their own unique way.

Boywonder set up the fort with the soldiers and Indians and horses in tableaus of impending horror.  At that point right before the bloodshed began.  A raised tomahawk.  A gun across a saddle.  Later he added prospectors off in a gully, the stagecoach racing for the fort.  He set the scene around his room and then we all tiptoed among the frozen story for weeks, until it was time to nestle each piece back in the box.

Bottled Lightning told me (after she had grown up) that she almost fainted when Santa brought her dollhouse when she was five.  With joy, I’m guessing.  Her method of  “play”–if you can call it that–was to set everything up where it belonged.  Beds in bedrooms.  Table and chairs in dining room, knives forks and spoons in correct drawers, etc.  Like an inventory.  NO ONE WAS TO TOUCH A THING.  EVERYTHING WAS WHERE IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE AND GOD HELP THE CHILD THAT CAME TO THE HOUSE AND WANTED TO–GASP–PLAY! WITH THE DOLLHOUSE!!!

Freckles McYoungest came along after Bottled Lightning had outgrown the dollhouse.  Bottled Lightning was persuaded to let her little sister borrow it, after being appropriately bribed.  Freckles had those little jointed figures running and riding in the car and sleeping on the roof.  They flew on the carpets, baked dinner for Indians, (who visited from the fort one day, for God’s sake, don’t tell Boywonder,) and held extremely animated conversations.  They changed their aprons and hats.  The mom became the maid.  (Wonder where she got that idea.)  The dog talked.  Or barked.  Or sang.  (And often had to poop.  Loudly.)

So thank you, Hans Beck.  I think you helped me raise an engineer, a statistician, and a storyteller.

Rest in Peace.


I have been chastised.


By Bottled Lightning and Freckles McYoungest.  (Boywonder doesn’t give a flyin’ monkey butt.)


About my language. No, not the %&**@#!! kind.  They’re fine with that.  It’s text slang.  Apparently, you have to have a license to use it, and there’s an age criteria.  Under 30.

Things like “K” instead of okay.



I guess those words aren’t so cool when they’ve been typed by liver-spotted, arthritic fingers.  I get it.  If your mother understands teenspeak, it kind of defeats the purpose.  Tribal jargon is a fine tool for keeping the old folks at arm’s length.

But I’m a YA writer and I think I should get a special dispensation.  How else am I going to grasp the colloquialisms of the foreign tongue?

They are harshin’ my squee.  Prolly gonna have to deal.


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